Till & Shirka – Intimacy Workshops
How is it to be you right now?
Only your heart knows where you are in your life.
Only you can sense what feels good, what you need, and where your journey might lead.
Where does it feel tight, and where do you long to grow?
Maybe you’re curious, maybe you’re ready to explore.
And maybe you don’t know what you want – and that is valuable too.
Wherever you are, you are enough.
We offer sexpositive Workshops because we experienced the transformative power of intimacy and touch. Every connection with another human is a mirror. Every encounter reflects something back: the filters and assumptions you carry, and also your strengths and fragilities – your fears, resistances, desires and longings.
Our approach: More Fun-tra than Tantra
We deeply respect the philosophy and practice of Tantra — yet we are not traditional Tantrikas.
Our work grows out of many sources: Gestalt therapy, TCI, breathwork, insights from the Burning Man community, learnings from queer, kinky, polyamorous, and anti-oppressive approaches, as well as many years of experience in the sex-positive scene. A particularly strong inspiration comes from the Temple culture of Mx. Gili.
We take spirituality seriously – but not ourselves. Playful lightness and honest depth belong together for us. We are looking for encounters with heart and humor.
Our offers are Spaces of Permission: permission to simply be, just as you are in this
moment. You don’t need to perform, prove, or hide. And if you feel like playing a role, that’s
welcome too – but you don’t have to.
These are safer spaces to explore your agency and personal freedom, together with humans of all genders. To experiment, to redefine yourself, to try out new ways of being. To find intimacy with yourself – and with others.
Change often happens in small steps that only make sense when you look back and see how far you’ve come.
What matters is showing up and being present – And sometimes, showing up isn’t possible – for many reasons. That’s okay too.
You are invited.
All of you.
Shirka & Till visit Fokus every 5–6 weeks for a full weekend.
Each time, they host one “Spielwiese – Temple of Connections” as well as various other workshops.
All of their workshops are held in English.
For full Information, registration and tickets visit: www.tillshirka.com
Spielwiese – Temple of Connections
Spielwiese is an invitation to come into touch with other playful souls in a held space and to consciously be present in the moment.
What’s special about a «Temple» is the combination of being with yourself and connecting with others in a present flow. Everything about you is welcome – your wild, juicy, confident sexiness, as well as your shy, vulnerable, indecisive being. The light and the heavy.
It starts with a guided part:
Various exercises help you to arrive in your body, in the here and now. Because the more present you are, the better you can perceive and communicate your needs and boundaries, as well as respect those of others.
We breathe togehter, we drink cacao, we open our hearts. In small steps, you meet the others in the room and slowly come into touch.
Then there is free flow, to do whatever you want.
You find one or more humans who resonate with you. You formulate wishes or receive offers and invitations. You may say yes or hear a no. In the end we all land togehter.
Dates: 11.01, 01.03, 11.04, 07.06, 25.07
Price: Standard: 90€ / Supporter: 120€ / Fairticket on request
Full information & registration on our website: www.tillshirka.com
Curious Lips – Let‘s kiss!
Kissing, Smooching, Snogging..
This workshop is for you if you like to kiss and to be kissed!
You will explore different ways of kissing with different levels of intensity.
The approach is slow, playful, explorative and fun!
This workshop is not about «learning how to kiss», but about exploring different kind of kisses with a bigger number of humans. How does it feel? What do I like? How can kissing be even more fun?
The journey will lead you from kisses without touch to sensually exploring lips to proper French-Kisses, maybe even with several persons. Throughout the workshop, you always have the choice with whom you kiss and how often.
Be ready to kiss many different humans and be open to kissing people of all genders.
And be curious! It might be that a person, that on first look is not your type, will be the most amazing kisser of the evening…
Kissing makes happy!
Dates: 09.01, 28.02, 06.06, 24.07
Price: Price: Standard: 52€ / Supporter: 72€ / Fairticket on request
Full information & tickets on our website: www.tillshirka.com
Flirt like a Butterfly
A flirting workshop and training ground
This workshop is all about making flirting fun and easy. Whether you want to feel more confident, connect with others, or just have a good time, this is the place to start!
We’ll start with playful role-play games to warm up and get more relaxed with flirting. You’ll learn how to show real interest, ask easy, good questions, and use body language to create connection. We’ll also practice giving honest, fun compliments that feel natural. At the end, you can try everything out in a light, low-pressure group activity.
Sounds like fun?
All you need is a bit of courage, some curiosity, and a good sense of humor. This workshop is for everyone, whether you’re «new» to flirting or just want to get better at it.
Dates: 28.02.26
Price: Price: Standard: 52€ / Supporter: 72€ / Fairticket on request
Full information & tickets on our website: www.tillshirka.com
Liquid Love – a sensual ocean of bodies
Wait… what actually happens at Liquid Love?
A warm room. A pool. A group of naked people, blindfolded, covered in warm gel. They slowly slide over and alongside each other. At the center of this experience: skin-to-skin contact. Warmth. Presence. Without intentions, without goals.
Whoa, that sounds intense!
Yes – it’s a beautiful and intense experience. Being naked with a group of strangers can feel very intense. Being touched – almost everywhere – can bring up all kinds of feelings: shame, insecurity, sometimes sadness or overwhelm.
But above all: it’s a wonderful experience.
Ongoing skin-to-skin touch is one of the most beautiful things you can feel. We take it slow and gently guide you through the process. And we also take time afterwards to rest and integrate the experience. We offer different editions of Liquid Love: «Strictly Sensual», «Spicy» & 🐈
Date: 12.04 (Sensual), 26.07 (Spicy)
Price: Standard: 120€ / Supporter 150€ / Fairticket on request
Full Information about the different editions & registration: www.tillshirka.com
How to get laid!
Asking for what you want is sexy
Curious about Intimacy Workshops? This is our „Beginners Temple“.
Maybe you’re curious to explore something new, but feel shy and unsure if intimate workshops are really for you. Maybe you’re actively dating, but your experiences don’t quite match your expectations. Or maybe you want to get more confident in speaking your desires, expressing vulnerability, and navigating boundaries with trust and clarity.
What will happen during this workshop?
This workshop focuses on communication, consent theory & practice, followed by sensual explorations and a guided play-space. It‘s a great preparation for our Spielwiese-Temple or any other kind of sex-positive events, but also a way to get better at asking what you want, in any kind of dating situation. It‘s designed for beginners and for anyone who wants to improve their communication around intimate encounters.
Date: 10.01.2026
Price: Standard: 75€ / Supporter: 100€ / Fairticket on request
Full info & tickets on our website: www.tillshirka.com
Deep Touch
Sensual Partner Massage Workshop
Everybody loves a good massage.
But when was the last time you actually received one?
This workshop is for couples (or close friends) who want to bring massage into their lives in a
simple and regular way. It’s a start, or an opportunity to deepen your practice.
A chance to slow down, touch, and be touched… maybe a gentle step toward something you’ve been wanting for a while?
Deep Touch is a massage workshop for couples who want to grow their intimacy through touch. It’s not about fancy techniques. It’s about slowing down, feeling each other, and letting the hands speak.
We keep it hands-on. First you watch a demo. Then you take turns. One gives, the other receives.
This is not about perfection. It’s about discovering a new way to connect, and enjoying the process together.
For Couples, friends, any combination – all are welcome. Gender is irrelevant, presence and touch
are what count.
Date: 10.04.2026
Price per couple: Standard: 150€ / Supporter: 180€ / Fairticket on request
All info & registration on our website: www.tillshirka.com